I don't think bringing up the discovery will be of any benefit to you rky, and I don't think it really changes anything as far as where you're at now or where you want to be. File it away in your mind and carry on with your plan. Don't allow it to affect your resolve to move forward in the manner you see fit.

Yes it's another stab to your heart, but a wise coach told me "Consult your plan, not your feelings".

Speaking of plans, have you decided anything on the "Champion OM" technique yet?

What is your plan here?

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl