Just a thought. Have you considered the Retrouvaille retreat? It's been talked about around here quite a bit for a while and I read up on it. It sounds good and it might be something which could re-ignite the flame, or at least give you guys some tools to work on your R.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then