"Probably not, but it will last longer if you respond."

This was in response to your question about will he always be this mean.

Are you asking about your fear, or his fear?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss