No it won't, not unless he sees it for what it is and takes steps to fix the way he interacts. And let me tell you, it is not easy!! 46 years of reacting instead of acting is a long hard habit to break.
Don't engage with the " you don't care". Do not change mind about house. He will try.
I always backed down if H ( the few times he was). Remained adamant about something. But I gave everything in my arsenal to get my way. So expect pouting, meanness, and petty gestures. Ya, I was awful. But am working hard.
If you give in here, you will be repeating patterns I bet have been in your marriage from the start
Good luck. Not easy to look at my own behaviour but I think it will help you with H's
