She once told me that she had already F'd up one marriage why mess up this relationship too.
I got this from H, but for him it was two marriages and numerous relationships in the 20 years inbetween. When I said I didn't understand why or how he would work on his issues for an affair partner but not in the safety of his home and the people who love him he replied with "because you'll never change."
Interesting to see that others have heard the same line. Part of the script I suppose. My response was "change what? People change all the time if they choose to. You are the one who won't change." I know today how right I was.
I see it here every day. Most people changing their butts off, but their walk aways or MLCers don't change one single bit.
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011
