MKB23 Thank you for coming by and your support. I really appreciate it.
Ruby-Yes of course you are right, I do care and thats why I am here. But more and more I realize how much this place has helped ME. Thank you again for your support and encouragement :-)
SD-thank you for this:
My biggest challenge is to remain open and hopeful (but not with the hopeful puppy face, as T^2 says), without expectations. I'm much better at closing out the potential pain. That line is hard to find -- the balance where we take good care of ourselves, protect ourselves, while still remaining open to R.
I agree that this is one of our biggest challenges to overcome. I find the balance tricky because sometimes I teeter into too much indifference towards H in an attempt to protect myself.
NG-You are right...we do forget to look at the smallest of positive steps and changes. Its humbling I think when we do because it also forces us to appreciate moments and incidents that before, I know I would, completely overlook. It forces me to be more attentive to my children, and I have stopped taking things for granted.
I think a week without crying IS huge NG. and you should celebrate yourself for it. I am so in awe of you.
and yes, we ARE doing it.
Tumbling-Thank you :-) Trying to keep my head ahead of my heart. Its a huge 180 for me. And it challenges me. The blanket is the best place to be. Its the safest place for us right now. i believe that.
Why are you having trouble? I will come by and see your thread.
You are right Arsene---TIME is everything now. How are you?:-)
afa75- Thank you for your hug. One right back at you (((( )))) I am so proud to be sharing this blanket with you.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
