how many things are you letting him "know nicely" aren't cool? when you let him know that your prefer veggie pizza, that's a backhand way of telling him he fell short.

if you're not able to pick off the toppings he selects and just end up with a cheese pizza, maybe you should call the pizza place ahead of his trip, order what you want, tell them you have a coupon, and then send him.

there are so many things to be grateful for about that evening and yet, you were disappointed and let him know it. it would also have been a good time to show your S that even if things aren't exactly how we would like them, we have so much to be thankful for.

as for the dishes, i know you want him to do them. i know he's agreed to do them. is this the hill you die on?

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing