Denver and Arsene, thanks for the input. I did ask her what she wants / needs. I so believe in equality and know this isn't a one sided scenario. So it sounds great. As far as working out together, no big pressure thing. It's something she asked me to do before but rarely would unless she dragged me along (eg walks). She can keep her zumba all to herself as I doubt I could do that.
M should be at the top. And NC with OM for me was a given, but added it on here so you all knew it. .
