I agree. I'd also bring Make M a Priority at the top of the list along with NC with OM.

I was wondering about that myself and I thought it might be a good idea to ask your W to come up with a list as well. I kind of thought of a "What I would like from you" list as well as a "I think this is what I need/am prepared to do" list. Both spouses would generate such lists and exchange them and then discuss them. How does that sound?

Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then