Total Eclipse by Dan Band

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(((Vero)))

I am sorry you have also had your struggles lately, but am glad that you are feeling better. You are under a lot of stress right now, so please be kind to yourself, will you?

What you and bug are discussing resonates so much with me. After a lot of heartache and therapy, I am fully aware now of my bad communication dynamics with my H as well. He says he always feels like he is walking on eggshells with me and I fully get why now. For a long time I didn't really get it, but now I do.

I have also learned to recognize that I am a terrible listener as well and the advice we get here is golden. Just shut up. Shut up and listen. I reminded myself of that during today before seeing H during the girls' gymnastics class and it helped. Of course today H was not really in a talkative mood anyways and avoided me most of the lesson, which also made it easier - LOL...

Anyways, I want to tell you that I will keep you and your S in my prayers for his procedure. I am sure everything will go well and if the dr. reschedules, then you'll know it is for the best. As you say, let go and let God.

Once things settle down for you, we can set up a play date, ok?

((((take care of yourself)))))