Yes, she might still be with OM (she's spending so much time around these days that I actually wonder if he's still in the picture) .
Your wife spending more time with you is a good thing. After all, that's part of the end goal here, right? To have your wife WITH YOU.
I thought Michele was very clear in DR. If the goal is to preserve your marriage, you may have to wait out an affair.
As men, we view being treated with honor and respect by our wives to be of utmost importance, so to me it is quite understandable that some are questioning your approach, and are advising you to cut her off. I don't know if that would draw her closer to you, and frankly neither does anyone else.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
