is that the longest post you ever wrote to me? I am quoting you on the entire thing. and thank you for passing on to me what you received. You are exactly right and even though the words you write are so so sad to read, they are true and they are what they are.
I am finally feeling truly humbled during this experience. and only now when i feel the real humility, can i hear the words of so many others that wrote about that on the board. and the humility comes from finally realizing that in so much as we "demand" that our WAS's transform , when we face our own incredible battle to make real deep long-lasting changes, we see what we are truly up against.
And it's an eye-opener to also see that until we have reached a certain stage in our own growth we do not have the ability to make the sort of boundaries you describe - that no, this is not good for me, no this is not healthy for me, yes i need space and time to heal.
and to find out what does zig want...
thank you for being here for me and welcoming me back. i'm glad i found my way back
zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
