So here's my story Part 3

[Denver_2010]

Oh, meant to add, that you should merely state these things to her... not pressure her... not argue with her about them. You simply communicate them to her and tell her to take her time to consider it. To let you know if and when she wants to commit to those things. I bolded 'wants' because it won't work if she feels that she is forced to do it, even if it is just an implied pressure from you.