here's the short list that I made last week. Thoughts?
What I WANT / NEED
*IC therapy - MC therapy
*Forgiveness for my wrongdoings
*Transparency - FB, games, phones, email.
*Equal partners in everything - house chores, bills, free time, parenting.
*Sleep in same room / bed - your mattress and comforter set.
*Help in taking life less serious / be less responsible - relax and have fun
*Exercise together sometimes.
*Most importantly, make the M a priority. Make time for each other.

-- In.the event I / we get there

Add NC with OM.