here's the short list that I made last week. Thoughts? What I WANT / NEED *IC therapy - MC therapy *Forgiveness for my wrongdoings *Transparency - FB, games, phones, email. *Equal partners in everything - house chores, bills, free time, parenting. *Sleep in same room / bed - your mattress and comforter set. *Help in taking life less serious / be less responsible - relax and have fun *Exercise together sometimes. *Most importantly, make the M a priority. Make time for each other.