Keep venting. Keep letting it out. Really. It's good. Now tomorrow you may want to consider contacting your county attorney for a protection order. He's a jackass. My H is too but not to that extreme. He's just mentally jacked up. Not normally violent. I will keep praying for you. You are right, he does notice the changes and it has him completely freaked out. He is fighting for his power. Not sure why he thinks that fear is the right route. My guess is OW is not sick but he is getting obsessive. Please protect yourself and your children.
