I just don't know what I'm supposed to be doing. My H is...I don't know where. There is no way to do anything when he never is around or will talk to me. I guess he is completely done. He doesn't want to work on our marriage and he isolates himself so no one can get to him. Maybe I should just accept that he is never coming back to me and I just have to take the road to being single.
I never knew he was so unhappy with me. There was absolutely no sign during the visits home this past spring. Nothing. Nobody could tell anything was wrong. Maybe he says he was unhappy so that he can justify his affair in his mind. Whatever it is, he's convinced that he doesn't want our M. I don't know how to turn that around.
