Journaling, So it has been about a week since I have posted anything. W has been moved out now for 2 weeks and nothing has changed. Yes I realize that it has only been 2 weeks but even a little change would be nice.
So my C said to wait until the first of the year to really create boundaries. She still comes over most nights and visits with the kids. We talk but only about each other days at work. Nothing about relationship, I dont call, text or email her. If she does text me then my replys are only to answer her question. When I do see her when she stops she still has that look when she is communicating with me. She has no respect or desire of me period. Which does not seem to bother me as much, in fact being in charge of everything at home has made me feel charged up. Like I am control of what, where and with who. Is this the beginning of real detachment?
How long do I wait until I ask her if she is ready to work on the marriage? Do I just keep moving forward like I don't need her? I guess I am realizing that I dont "Need" her but I still want her. I know each situation is on a differnt time table but really 2,4,6,8 months, 2 years how long??
