You sound really good and strong Busting Maintaining our distance and observing is key to remaining detached. But it's especially hard when they are nice not to have expectations. However, you sound like you can keep your heart in place and let things go where they will.
The blanket is the best place to be. I'm having trouble with that right now but I know it can be achieved because you are on that path
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"