I feel like he made up his mind. It seems like he is basically living his life like he is single or already divorced. He has his OW, he has his other friend circle. He is living in another city. So he doesn't care about me apparently, and he is just hoping that time will make me give up and ask him to divorce me. I moved to his hometown so I don't have much support here. His parents are still nice to me which I really appreciate. But they do not want to get involved into this. Smart for them. Plus they both got divorced before, so they seem to be a good example of a 2nd marriage to my H.