Gunny, Kudos for making the trip to Alaska. Perhaps we’ll run into each other on the AT.
Two years ago I spent a week with my D at Gettysburg. She had been trying to reconnect with X and I after several year of estrangement. It was good and we reconnected.
It is difficult when we find our Xs are getting on especially when we don’t think we’re doing so. I have a hunting buddy who recently divorced. His D was over in about 4 months. When I spoke with him last his X was on BF 5 and he was signing up for a Russian dating service. He speaks Russian and thinks that will give him a leg up. Frankly he doesn’t seem very happy. He seems to be twisting with each new event bringing new emotions.
I’m working on me and getting whole again. I wasn’t looking when I met X. I had all but shipped over and put that on hold while I sorted out what I wanted to do. It is one of those forks in our path we contemplate once in a while.
I do want to share the rest of my life with someone and I will eventually when it happens. I’ll probably feel differently in a few years, if I haven’t begun dating, but for now, no pressure.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill