So I hope to get some advice on this. I know I asked before, about H's good friend wanting to visit him. But this friend didn't make a move for a while. Yesterday, he contacted me saying he wanted to visit my H, and asked for his address. Then I asked him if we could meet and talk a little bit before he goes. He said okay.
I will probably meet with him later today. AnotherStander said he didn't think this friend visiting will benefit me any. I agree. But should I tell him not to go? At this point, I don't know what would be good. I do not want to encourage him to go visit, but I don't think I should try to stop him from going.
I plan to ask him what he thinks he is going to do with my H there, and I want to hear his opinion a little. I also want to ask him again to try not to talk about our M problems. He said before that he wouldn't bring the issue up unless H does. He said he is more concerned about H's mental health as a human being. He even said this himself that he doesn't know if his visiting would do me good. I just hope this won't cause any more damage.
Any similar experience with a friend getting involved? Or any advice? I feel like since this friend contacted me, I'd make it clear on certain things. But I don't know if I'm thinking clearly myself. Any help on this would be much appreciated !
