Oh, and also keep in mind, especially if H is a computer person, that every email/text/etc can be archived for "future use" ... kinda the old "what you say can and will be used against you", please be careful.
And keep all of his textx/emails/etc, for the same reason. I have had my archive in case my mlc W wants to go for D and put it all on me...just saying...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
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