She noticed everything, scratches on my back, bracelets on my arm. She asked what was going on but i deflected.
She offered to drop of S for fathers day, great. I then had to tell her about my plans to go out of town but that I would give notice as to when I got back.
She said ok. 20minutes later she suddenly asks "where are you going though?" probably XX. "ok" then 10 minutes later "hm. with who?" maybe a couple friends but I was also thinking of going alone, just for the sake of doing stuff alone.
that seemed crazy to her, I bet she didn't believe me.
I gave her the stuff before leaving. she asked me if I thought our arragnement was working and we talked a bit about that.
THEN; "the scratches on your back and sudden out of town trip. something I should know?" why do you ask? "oh...well...just wondering. maybe it's important in regards to S"
I realized where this was going. She thinks I got over her and found someone new. I deflected and continued S talk.
I took the bait, again! But at least I stopped myself after.
I know I shouldn't mindread and stuff, but chit....I was close to asking if she regrets her choice(leaving me).. I wonder. I shouldn't.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
