I asked why (as I would have to cancel several meetings but didnt say that). Release the Krakkon!
LOL! Love the analogy
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Looking down the road I have a huge hurdle (opportunity or serious challenge) before me. While W is currently off her D kick, she still occasionally brings up talk of a trial S but never pursues it for long or frequently.
How have you been responding when she brings it up? Don't argue, reason, agree/ disagree or negotiate with her, just tell her that you want her to be happy and if she feels that is what will make her happy then you support her decision. You don't want to put any pressure on her to stay, she needs to know the cage door is wide open and she can step out any time.
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The lease cannot be extended and yet I do not want to start talking about options yet as this potentially weighs too heavily or forces some R talks. At the same time, we need to start planning for a house purchase soon.
Not looking for real estate advice here, but how do I handle the complicated web of long term financially planning with someone that one any given day doesn't want to have a long term future together?
Ooh, that's a tough one. I think I would not plan on purchasing, just plan on leasing elsewhere. If you just assume that's where it's headed then you don't really need to approach her about it anytime soon.
