The green green grass of home

[Arsene]

That sounds good but it s not an easy one to do. I think the trick is to gal as much as you can till your life on your own takes on more meaning than what you ve got now with your spouse. It s kind of like rubbing ice on your wrist to get rid of a tooth ache. You just switch your focus on something else. I think one of the problems some people have is they don t really want to let go of the pain. I know that is true for me. It s almost like if I stop hurting, it ll mean I stop loving her. I know it s not true but it sometimes feel like all I ve got left is that pain. It s like anything else I guess, you ve got to choose to do it before you can actually do it,