When was the last time she had a full nights sleep for 3 consecutive nights?
Since our first child was born I took every single night feeding. Even when they were just weeks old and getting up every two hours, I did all for all three kids except for two nights when I was in a hospital.
Her inability to sleep these days is more related to the guilt, pressure, confusion, etc. But even now when the kids get up for a drink, bathroom, etc they come to my side of the bed or call for Daddy. I have never relented on this responsibility as it is what i would have wanted if roles were reversed.
W: 40 Me: 44 M: 12 years Together: 14 Three children (S-4, D-3, S-1) EA started in April, discovered in 07/12 ILYBNILWY: 07/12 MC Started: 09/12 Patience Tested: 1,245,963 times since 07/12