Bug, I just read through your "talk". I don't think I have anything earth shattering here, but after the amount of time that's elapsed, the part of avoiding initiating an R talk doesn't matter anymore. You just have to let it rip and let the chips fall where they may.
I did something similar a few months ago and I have no regrets. At least my W knew where I stood. I haven't done it again yet, but I may at some point before this ride is over.
BTW, loved that post from the DB FB page you shared.
Thanks for stopping by, jb!
Yes, letting the chips fall, that's what I came to.
It's interesting that as we go on with this we begin to see that our Ss haven't changed much, they are just more of who they always were. We just didn't see it or they smoothed the rough edges more. Or we made excuses. At least that's what I'm feeling more and more.
And they might think the same about us.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
