New to DB and Clearly Oblivious to My "Horrible" M

[labug]

I just read your thread and what jumps out at me is your wife has been pregnant or postpartum for 5 years. That is very difficult without a lot of support. And that support needs to come from many different sources.

How has the last 5 yrs been for both of you?

Also, it sounds as if your wife went from being being a respected wage-earner to a SAHM (I've done both) and the transition is hard. And no one can tell you how difficult it is. SAHMs don't get a lot of respect and they are doing a 24/7 job that never ends. There's also not a lot of support for them and what they do.

How did you support her through this transition? What are your real feelings about her being a SAHM?

I'm not diagnosing her with anything but as I said 5 years of being preg/pp will do a number on anyone if they aren't being very vigilant in caring for themselves.

What she's doing wears me out just to think about it.