Are you absolutely sure lease cannot be extended? I would wait. Unless you leased it without W knowing anything about it then she is well aware of the sitch.
Yes. No possible continuation. Current owners plane to place on the market. W is well aware. Not sure I was planning on bringing it up yet, but they list this house at the end of March. that is not too far off.
Originally Posted By: rubytuesday
Right now it would look like you are envisioning a future together and it may scare her silly. You don't have to move tomorrow, so it is not worth stressing about today or even next month.
Very fair point. Exactly why I am seeking advice. I have been great about not applying pressure or initiating R talks, but anything I do related to the house will be construed as such and I dont want to fall into that trap.
Originally Posted By: rubytuesday
So, my partner in not texting every five seconds....shall we see how we do? :p
I love a good challenge.
Thank you for your advice. I really appreciate it. So thankful to have the benefit of this board and people like you.
W: 40 Me: 44 M: 12 years Together: 14 Three children (S-4, D-3, S-1) EA started in April, discovered in 07/12 ILYBNILWY: 07/12 MC Started: 09/12 Patience Tested: 1,245,963 times since 07/12
