I think a LOT of people here on this forum could benefit from TODAY cutting all of the long, drawn-up, try-to-teach-their-wayward-spouse-a-lesson justification and "R talks" by simply repeating this phrase, ending the convo, and proceeding to go out and GAL.
After spending more and more time in my sitch I am starting to agree with this concept. I am patient, I am willing, but I am not bending.
W: 40 Me: 44 M: 12 years Together: 14 Three children (S-4, D-3, S-1) EA started in April, discovered in 07/12 ILYBNILWY: 07/12 MC Started: 09/12 Patience Tested: 1,245,963 times since 07/12