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[LisaLost]

Thanks for all the caring responses. MKB, I am prett sure he did. He was pretty mad that I have pulled way back and informed him that I won't tolerate disrespect. He took off yesterday along with ow to go to our 12 year olds school to call him out of class to talk to him. The guidance counselor sensed something bc my son didn't want to go with him. My h then showed his butt and embarrassed our son. They asked him to leave and she phoned me and told me what happened. She also said she asked him why he was putting his son in the middle of something that should be handled between him and me and our respective lawyers. She told me he brought the ow into the school with him and he told the counselor that I have brainwashed everyone and he would take all the kids. The had the resource officer remove him. She also informed him that she has not spoken with me concerning this issue and until he showed up she had no idea we were getting divorced. She kept our son in her office as he was shaken up a d embarrassed but she said he left in a happy mood and opened up to her about how he was happy his dad wasnt home and we all were happier. That he loved his dad but didn't want to be with him all the time.

My h is the kind of person that reacts without thinking and regrets things later. So I am sure he did file. He hasn't been getting any reaction from me lately and is doing anything to produce one. I am not taking the bait. I am surprisingly calm about it.

One concern I have is that all these affairs and all the ow that were sex only he has never put our kids in the middle and he has done it twice in the last 3 days. Do you think he is realizing he has truly lost his grip on me and the only way to get to me now is the kids?


Thanks
Lisa