My W has been lacking sleep for the last 2 months (ever since this ordeal started). I am worried about her health. She tells me things will be better when everything is settled (when she moves out). I simply told her, you are where you are at because you don't know what direction you want to go in. I left it at that.
Not sure how things will be better because M-F I will have the kids and she keeps telling me how Kids are important to her. Clearly the lack of sleep and her current throught process isn't clear.
Yesterday was my 1st time, i actually imagined life without my W and how i took care of the house, worked, clean, cook, got the kids ready for school, helped with HW. I actually thought, at the end of the night, i can have a Glass of Wine and breath a sign of relief.
Lately I been having thoughts about how long do I wait? Is it 3 months, 6 months, 1 year, 2 years? How long do I continue to be in this cycle. I love her very much but at the same time, if i can never make her happy, i need to move on.....I guess as i detach more,GAL and DB, the decision will be easier.
