About the meds, dosing is a balancing act but after all these years your H should be a good judge of what's helping and what's not. We don't know what he is telling his doc. Maybe H is saying he hasn't felt the good in years. "The fog is lifted, I can see what I want."
Doesn't do any good to go down that rabbit hole.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss