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[RegretfulLA]

Lisa,
It sounds like your H is very insecure indeed. He has to keep hopping from woman to woman to make himself feel manly, then has to accuse you in the process. My own H, who has screamed and cried about how badly he wants a D has thrown in a few times that I am really the one who wants the D and made comments about my imaginary BF too. It's insecurity, plain and simple.

Now that he knows you're not begging for him to come home, he probably doesn't know what to do, which is why he went and filed for D so abruptly.

From what I can see here, and I know it's not much, the way he has treated you over the years is grounds for a D as far as I am concerned. I know this is DB, but I really think he's doing you a favor.