LITB and others, Thank you so much for your words of wisdom. Saturday I have my very 1st DB coach session and I will the coach how to ask for the toddler without jeopardizing everything.
Today I had an "accompanied visit" and it went well. I said hello and touched her arm, then I played with the toddler, then we (her mum, her and the toddler)went to Tim Horton's for a coffee. We spoke about stuff of no importance, she didn't avoid my eyes, and even smiled at a couple of jokes I cracked.
I wish, oh I so wish I had more time before she could file for D... It took me 4 months of baby steps to soften her heart, and I'm about to get through and I have to throw that bomb of asking 50% custody and make sure I lose my visits and close her spirit now for good, back to square one?
Oh my, oh my...
Me:34 ; W:28 Son: almost 2. Married : 14 March 2009 DBomb : 18 June 2012 Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries) Same country and city since July 2012
