I think you were posting at the same time I was so I missed your post earlier.
We are currently working on a dissolution agreement. If my W is consistent about anything, she will say she wants a D. That being said, her actions are not always consistently indicating that. Frankly, I attribute some of that to disorganization and laziness on her part. She had grown accustomed to me doing a lot. If we can reach an agreement this way, and I really think we can if it comes to it, I'd rather go the dissolution route. However, if we are definitely heading toward a full blown divorce, I'll do what I have to do to protect myself and my S, full guns a-blazin'.
