Studies in Feral Cats, part 4

[reachingHigher]

Yes, yes, yes, tvs! I had an afterthought after the above post but didn't know if I should post it. Since you mentioned the shower thing...here goes....

Another thought that was great for me....a gift card from a special store like Victoria Secret? Is it not far enuf along to do that?

When I was younger I was thrilled if a guy bought me something from a store like that but now I'm older, I like to pick my own stuff out. I don't want someone else defining who I am sexually.

H got me a card last year and then was very unhappy with what I bought. ("I gave you a card to V.S. and you bought THAT?")

I know you wouldn't do that, T! Obviously what H had in mind isn't who I was at that time!! But you aren't in MLC so I know you wouldn't be that way. (it's kinda funny now....actually at the time I thought it was funny then it was so ludicrous!!)

If V.S is too personal, maybe another kind of thing to make her feel special...massage certificate? (hopefully a girl to massage) Clothing store? Something where she gets to pick out something special for HER but you show her you are interested in who she thinks she is. Idk. Floundering here or brainstorming. Take it or leave it.