Back on this site help!!

[LisaLost]

A few days ago I stood up for myself and told my h that I was expecting him to respect me and to give me a days notice on visits and to show up on those days. He told me that I didn't control when he saw his kids that he did. I don't argue. He responded with a text that he is seeing that I am trying to be firm bc I have a new bf. not true. He text me lots of threats and name calling. I ignored it all last night. This morning he kept on with his ranting I was on the phone with a cousin and he called 3 times and sent 7 messages while I was on phone. When I got off phone. I read the last text that said I had one more chance to tell him.

I I asked what he was talking about but he said too late. He called in sick and took his ow to a lawyer and filed for our divorce. Then he text me that he filed and that will teach me to ignore him and he hopes it works out with my bf. who is nonexistent.

I am kinda sad bc he did it out of spite and his assumption that I am seeing someone. But part of me is relieved. That finally the process is started.

Any support or advice.