I'm glad to hear that he made the appointment. I hope that as Breakdown said, he is pro-marriage. The fact that he made the appointment shows some level of trying. However, based on what you said about what happened before, I know you must have concerns about whether H is going to man up to his role, or continue to try to push this off on you.
Have you had any communications with him otherwise?
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together