RH, I love, love LOVE reading your perspective of things! You are such a confident woman with inner and outer beauty!
And what guy wouldn't be hot for that?
T, maybe this is a good time to try the peeking in the shower/ raised eyebrows thing? Just sayin'.
I don't know if this sheds any light on what you W is feeling or not...
In retrospect (man, aren't so many things clear in retrospect!) I remember my H started saying negative things about his appearance WAY before bomb. I would always tell him things like "I think you're hot" or "I think you're a good looking guy" (because it was definitely true for me!) and his response would be...
"You have to say that, you're my wife."
So, maybe your W thinks you are attracted to her out of love and devotion, even obligation, but not that animal attraction she may be looking for. Realistically, I think a M has all different kinds of attraction, including the animal kind.
I still think my H is physically attractive. It's the personality that is a BIG turn off right now.
Keep being patient with her, and I'll bet she'll come around. And that my friend IS definitely something worth waiting for
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
