Thanks so much for the great advice, it is comforting to know I'm not alone in this struggle. The "slow bleed" analogy is right on. Came home today to a few more things missing and felt the blood dripping from my heart again. Expect he will make a bigger move tomorrow, Friday seems to be his favorite day to clear out. I don't think he cares how that totally ruins my good mood and plans for the weekends, or maybe that is his goal. Anyway, I have hit a patch here where I have given him more power over my emotions and it has to stop.
I'm planning to take the power back soon, the deadline idea is a good one. I need to set boundaries and protect myself better -- my next goal. But first, must pray for more strength and patience.
M: 38yo, H: 44yo Together:10yrs Married: 6yrs No kids BD 8/15/12 H walked-out 8/18/12
