I can tell you on the other side of an EA that it can be forgotten and it does not always need to be an elephant in the room if H can make you feel truly loved. It's certainly not an asset to a relationship but its not a death sentence either. I felt as you do now and had the same doubts and I can tell you that if you see honest love and appreciation from him you will not worry about it. Getting there, however, is brutally hard.
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
