What are your reasons for leaving the "nickel tip", AT? I have a friend who was a waitress and if you did that and returned, you'd get not just bad service at the next visit. :0 I know that my friend is an excellent waitress, and sometimes people are just jerks and leave nickel tips because they think it's funny. The nickel tip in the restaurant game is meant to be punitive, devaluing.

I'm curious, AT, what your thoughts are.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

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