A, I really appreciate everyone trying. There's always hope for a few pearls, even if they're not all-out game changers.
The counselor that told H he had grounds for D was a different counselor; one we've known for years that H would only see every couple of months. The new one he's going to because I insisted. It's not supposed to be M counseling, so it is all about him. He may not be a narcissist but he has all the symptoms. If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck,.... well... in my book, you treat it like a duck.
