Wendy!!! It's been a long time since I posted to you, but girl you are just AWESOME!! I want to be like you when I grow up!
Oh Wendy I am SO GLAD you've been able to go back and see just how one sided this relationship was. It's amazing isnt' it? How we go back and re call things, then apply what we've learned to the present and realize just what we've been putting up with and putting ourselves through for years?
I've been doing this alot the past several months. Going through big realtionship autopsy. It's still hard for me because on one hand I feel like you, NEVER AGAIN IF HE WERE PLATED IN GOLD! Then the other I feel so sorry for a person that's so damn miserable inside that they have to go out and hurt other's like this, and I actually want to help my XH. I want to apologize for my 50%. I want to be there if he opens up. He actually did open up about some stuff to me a month ago, which was ODD.
And then I apply what I've learned, am still learning, and where Xh appears to be at this point and time. And I realize it's time for me to just keep moving on and moving forward with my life just as you ARe!
Job well done Wendy! You're and encouragment and an inspiritation!
