I definitely see a trend CV, of new folks being exposed to your sitch, working through it with you, and then agreeing you're in a really tough place.

Why did H start going to counseling for narcissism? Did he come up with that himself, or did you suggest that he's a narcissist and he really listened?

If he's going to therapy for narcissism, why would his therapist be telling him that he could divorce you on the basis of abandonment, isn't that making it all about him? Who is this therapist? Does it make sense for you to talk to the therapist to give some background?

Acc

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015