He's had every opportunity to make this right and now it's up to him to put his big boy's pants on and find a place to have them visit w/him. As for the veiled threat of his generosity...well, the courts will decide what he should provide...
I think I need to go buy a crate of tissues. This guy is going to be crying the poor me for a long time. Welcome to reality dude!
Hang in there. You did good! Stay strong and keep your boundaries in place.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
