Dealing with the reality of separation

[eyesopen]

I will take your wise advice and just forget about it all together. I'm just pretty sure I'm being used as either a B option or to pay for her health insurance at this point. [/quote]

You are only plan B if you let yourself be. That is what acting as if and GAL are all about. If you feel like plan B then you are. If you can get to a place where your self worth is not defined by anyone but you, you will be no ones second option.

I know it isn't easy, but that is what we have to do in the same time and space that they are figuring out their issues.