You're right, just pissing her off. I'm going to remain steadfast about the car when I want/need it and she'll coordinate with me. I'm going to do some thinking about what it means to me to just have her as a friend/roommate and act that way. I asked my friend to not tell me about her bad mouthing me or looking to move out. I asked my friend to tell me if it's confirmed she's dating, if there's any acknowledgement of my efforts, or if there are complaints and my friend thinks I can tweak things.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln