If there was a fast forward button I would be pressing it like crazy!!! Alas, there is not. So I take a page from AA and take one day at a time..
So, as a fixer I want everything better now. Ain't gonna happen. And it won't happen for you. Seriously, GAL, invest in IC if you have to, be pleasant polite and upbeat. In my mind two things will happen; you'll either be back together or you won't. But let me say, if you are not, you yourself will be a heck of a lot further down the road to being at peace with yourself than you are today.
Good luck. There is some great advice on this board...take it, post here when you are down. There is not a feeling or even a situation that someone on here hasn't encountered.. Just knowing you have people who understand is worth it's weight in gold.
So next post you are gonna tell us what you did to GAL..:)
